Not sure why you think I'm a part of the dev team lol I'm just reading the information available, so no I can't do that. And no, if you noticed your choices makes it easier or harder for him to win over the girls so it's still based on you.
Whether you become the wall that blocks him or the force that pushes him forward is due to your choices but this game tells you what your choices do so you can immediately realize whether it was a good one or bad one.
And for your question below, lol no I can't and he shouldn't be.