I'm trying to play the game through sexual management: basically get the enemy aroused, let it have their way with me or taking control and be the one dominating or penetrating.

However I keep running in several difficulties, the most notables are:

1. I get killed while trying to make the enemy stagger
2. I kill the enemy while trying to stagger the enemy and making him/her prone
3. I usually never get the chance to swith to Offensive stance before the enemy gets up again
4. Skills that say trip enemies not always do so.

I tried to fix 2 by lowering my Strength and maxing Agility/Endurance, but 1 is a hard thing to avoid because of Bleeding. Also 3 happens constantly and I don't know if I'm doing something wrong. The only way I found for now to consistenly keep an enemy prone is to spam "Grab it" and "Let it go", as this lowers enemy stamina till they drop Dazed. As 4, I have yet to understand how Trip works.

I'm not sure if I'm doing something wrong or there are just not yet enough tools for this kind of playstyle. I usually use Thied with lower Str and Magic with higher End and Agi, and use skills like Taunt, Slide and Uppercut to destabilize the enemy. Is there a "better" build or skill I should focus on?

From my experience, it is too difficult to pitch and dom-catch to be worth the effort of trying.

For the whole "let it have their way with me" part, you can succeed by having the taunt skill and kneeling once the enemy is erect (there's an image that displays how hard they are near the enemy's health).

If you are subbing, enemies go along with it as of now. But domming gets you tossed off or has no affect (like when you cowgirl(?) the opponent).

Beware though! You can't win against some enemies this way and you could get a bad end.

Also, you can get the skill "hit the deck" if you want the enemy to butt fuck you (most will).

Well, you already have the correct skills to do so. Taunt, slide, and uppercut. The plan is usually to taunt until you're both fully erect, then just keep sliding so they constantly have to get up and waste stamina, then when they're on the floor and won't get up for the next turn (you need to know this for sure if they're low health) use uppercut which will put you in an offensive stance and won't hit since the enemy is laying down on the floor.