Is there any way i can skip the Selye fight? I've been stuck on it for too long and cant past it ive done everything 

You cannot skip the fight.

1. Try again with the right fight patern and max. Heal/Mana Potions. Max out your Sword.

- Use DEFEND when he is charging up. If the multi-Hit-spell hits you,  It's  gameover. Even with godlike stats at level 15 you still must DEFEND his MH-Spell. If the MH-Spell does more than 25 damage while defending -> Your Defence/Endurance Stat is to low. 

- If you are using a Charm-Build for your MC, the first Phase is weak to FLIRT.

2. Savescum: If your Level, Defence or Endurance Stat is to low you need to savescum your way out. Savescumming is more efficient with an mid-high Agilty Stat. Use Quick Reload when he enemy hits you. Use Quick Save when the Boss miss

3. Roll_back: If your level is rather low and you hate Savescumming (or your agility is too low to make savescumming work) reloard or Roll_back before the War ends. When you got the last mission to end the war, or before that, POWER-LEVELING!! Flirt or defeat the Bull Warrior and the rogue Lizard until your are level 15. Make sure you rise your Endurance to at least 7.