Any recommendations for discord servers where people actively communicate their game ideas, chill and play games. Overall I'm just looking for a friendly server to hang out in my free time. 

Hi Zashi, ¿Do you want a Discord server recommendation related to game development and tools on itch.io?

I can think of a couple of them:

The first is related with one of my project: https://discord.gg/UyacSFF

And the other is a online tool called "Pocket Platformer": https://discord.gg/JDQy2NtKDf

Check out the Devtalk and LoveVN communities. Both are more focused on visual novel creation in particular, but the people in it are chill and helpful. 
LoveVN (@lovevndev) / Twitter
Lemon @VNDevTalk (@VNDevtalk) / Twitter