I loss  so I could get the stallion dildo.  I had a little fun there getting laid  or getting her laid with Ella enough times to trigger the "Marriage" option.  Now I want to leave but can't. I even try the Town Portal Spell but no dice.  How can I leave? Is there way in the save file to edit so I can leave?

Town portal should work no matter what. Do you have it, you keep clicking it, and it does nothing?

As for save editing, maybe it's possible. But I think you need another save file with which you will get to some place, and your location is saved. Then you copy and paste all the text related to places you visited to initial save. Should move your character to another tile.

yes I do have it and it does nothing.

I'm pretty sure the point is you CANNOT leave, lol.