I don't think it's appropriate to have photos of yourself in your underwear where your bulge is visible saying "feeling cute" when you're developing a family friendly game. There's also a number of men interacting with you on instagram who have a fetish for contortionist, underwear and bulges. This creates an unsafe environment for those who might follow you because they like your game does it not? Why link your instagram on your professional pages if stuff like this can easily be seen? Shouldn't the two be separated because I have never seen another developer do things like that on their socials. Some thought should be put into creating this brand of yours and some effort should be made to separate your private life from your professional life. I'm sorry but it's a little weird. This has nothing to do with the pronoun issue that people are uptight about, I'm a gay male and I know very well what I'm looking at.