it says that i cant travel back to the temple until i sleep at the inn and after sleeping at the inn it still says this.... am i forced to do all the quests right away?
You have to sleep at the inn at the mayor's bequest. Basically you have to finish the quest the mayor has set for you when you talk to him. You have to find the big tree which is north of the city, I forgot what it's called, but its the first one you are in. After you complete it and return, he will then ask you to stay at the inn.
well you're supposed to do the mayor quest, go to the strange tree in thessila map , after that you go back to mayor report your success after certain activities (no spoilers) and then you sleep at the inn again
