Dev is against kink shaming, untill its a kink they don't care for. Then its completely fine. You can talk shit all you want about people who like virgins on their discord, and it even exists in the game with the game making fun of you for avoiding NTR. But if you call out this double standard, or even try to say anything slightly negative (Not that I did) about one of their kinks in discord they will ban you.
Its pathetic.