Dear Agashi,
even if the game is cancelled, at least TELL US. Then at least the money can be given back to the backers. I just genuinely hope that nothing happened. And if you can't update, at least let someone else speak on your behalf, i.e. your husband or a friend. This is just so frustrating. The game should have been out A YEAR AGO. But that's not even the main issue. Delays are bound to happen. But people have given you their money. You have a RESPONSIBILTY to work and deliver, or at the very least KEEP UP COMMUNICATION between yourself and your customers, and make the delays known. You have to always have at least one way of communication open!! If kickstarter doesn't work, post updates here or on tumblr or wherever, just UPDATE.