So I was doing the oxen retrieval quest and I got to liai, I gave her meat instead of fighting her and it ended at that. I checked some of the update notes and apparently you can ask her to change clothes? I don't see that option when talking to her, do I have to complete the oxen quest before doing anything with liai or did I have to fight her? Also cuz I'm not sure if there's a way to redo the quest or smthn.