I was thinking, as someone with autism and ADHD I'm having a lot of trouble keeping track of all the things I have to manage, could you consider adding a mode similar to ambient? That disables either servers crashing(only servers, not the tower or the transformers) or the changing of hash codes but also removes either the need to eat or sleep but keeps all the other events? 

If it helps, try and make yourself an Omega Kerfur. They can basically do the whole job of fixing servers and fetching hashcodes for you. Makes the job a lot easier. At that point, you can just sit at the base all day and get signals if you want.

I'm in the same boat as you, and I can agree that sometimes it feels overwhelming, but I enjoy doing a lot of things at once haha. I will second what the person above said though, rush for an omega kerf, even a normal one for the time being. There is more than enough trash at the start of the game to buy the 2 kerfs you need for their parts. You don't even need her blueprint book in the bunker, so you don't need the hook or password changed to be honest. They do take away so much stress