So, I originally wanted to make my son be kind and my daughter be shy. So I cranked up the Male percentage to 100% got myself a baby boy, though he was shy...and had green eyes and hair...even though neither of his parents have either of those, but no matter, we can change that with the body editor. (This is where I originally found the Wines weren't labled properly and the personality wasn't changing, even if it moved on the diagram.) Reload file, try again, same exact results only the eye's were grey this time.  Ok, third times the charm, figured if I passed a day or two before my wife and I did the deed, it would change how he comes out, and the results are the same. Green hair, green/grey eyes. Decide "Ok, I guess I'll try having a daughter first." So I switch the gender slider to only girls, and repeat the process, Still had a shy personality baby boy. If needed I can provide screenshots.