I have Gazer of Darkness and Jiangshi but got them only to 30 Realationship so far It takes forever to reset 

Unlike other places there I can just go to sleep ingame for it to reset.

So what have I to do for them to reset?

It should reset when you leave and re-enter the map by foot. The trigger is on the exit of the map, so walk out. You'll miss the trigger when you teleport out instead of taking the exit.

Thx did work this Way.