So you can be mates with Duskfall, Dustfeather, Cottonwillow (I guess?), Nightwhisper and Breezesong. To be with Duskfall you have to be warrior and you have to be female or both. When you are warrior and he asks you do you want a training battle say no and when he asks you then, do you wanna hang out or smth like this, say yes. You have to go with him to the beach and ripple him until he will do *SOMETHING*. To get Dustfeather you have to just be female or both, be warrior and say no if he asks you for battle training. If he doesn't accept your request for being mates ask him again later. Now to get Breezesong you have to be female or both. When you are apprentices you have to keep talking with her, after you'll have 20 points of reputation, after that she will ask you to hang out. Then you have to do what you had to with Duskfall. And if you are warriors you can just ask her for being mates, lol. For Nightwhisper you gotta just ask her when you are a warrior. And you can be every gender. If its about Cottonwillow You have to be male(?) Or both and play with her in Guess My Number (GMN). You have to win tree time and loose ones (I guess). Fallenfeather sooo, you have to just talk with her until there will be "Ask for mate"