Thank you for the feedback. I'll try to make it more clear. While awake, you get points for your actions and spend them in the dreams. There are multiple reasons for greyed options. For example, some may be based on one or numerous previous decisions, or you must have already transformed into a demon to get the choice. Or the other way round, be still an angel. Or maybe you lack the necessary heaven or incubus point. For example, if you play a good angel character, you cannot bring Mr. Hartmann to spank them. But if you are already a demon, you get the option.