literally, why i am getting downvoted??ðŸ˜ðŸ˜
it was just a suggestion, people are getting pressed over this when they are the same that play games with futa girls and femboys?? leave my hermaphrodites ALONE! ðŸ˜
Hermaphrodites aren't really comparable to futanaris and femboys. Sure they are all often fetishized in creepy ways, but hermaphrodites are a myth, where futanaris are trans women and femboys are just feminine boys of any sex. Hermaphrodite is also often misused derogatively towards intersex people, who's genitals aren't comparable to that myth.
All of this to say, this is a realistic game, not really the place to play with mythological fetishes, which I think is why you got downvoted so much. Plus CoT handles transidentity and gender expression so well, and it feels misplaced to used them as a comparable argument in favor of a hermaphrodite fetish. Our identities are already fetishized enough, and often portrayed in a surnatural way (like AFAB futanaris who just suddenly grow a dick one day).
To each their own kink of course, you are allowed to have a thing for hermaphrodite characters. Just please stay mindful to separate fantasy and reality at the right times, especially when it comes to comparing gender identities to it.
Hope that helps, have a nice day !
oh ok, but please let me clear some things;
futanaris are NOT transgender woman, they are named futa for that reason, also when you search for it, it says futanari sometimes are girls with both the organs, so it is no different. otherwise it would be just trans girl right?
also i DON'T have a "hermaphrodite fetish" nor have a "thing" for this, i AM intersex (hermaphrodite is a really old term and often used for harmful puporses but i use) also it is pretty weird to say i have a "kink" for this?? lol
i maded the suggestion bc i wanted to immerse myself in the game??
also the game could be very realistic and STILL allow this option, it is not a alien concept (well for some it is).
you were very respectful to me so i hope i was not rude to you, it is not my intention, really! but if you think people are downvoting my comment for "realistic purposes" idk what to say to you, but it is really NOT for this, i joined their discord one time, and SOME people there were really bigots (not the devs!)
Sorry if any of my points are offending you, especially regarding kinks. It seemed like a very specific demand for a sex game full of kinks, and your comment felt like requesting yours. My apologies for assuming.
Also, I don't know you at all, I had no idea you were intersex and so does everyone else. I only ever heard intersex people being called hermaphrodite as an insult or a creepy fetish. You have the right to reappropriate an insult of your community, but if you don't give any context then people are gonna assume that you're just being disrespectful ! (Don't worry, you're not the first queer person to make that mistake).
As for futanaris, I didn't know that much about them, just read some blogs about people making connection with a fetish of trans women. But if it's as wild as you describe, then yeah it would feel weird in this game.
However, I overall do agree with you that an intersex option could be a great addition to the game ! It is a realistic request, you're right. Your initial comment just felt like you were requesting an exaggerated hermaphrodite character similar to the myth where the word comes from, and not an intersex character. Sorry for my side of the confusion on this !