When I was talking about things being debatable if they're rape, I wasn't referring to things that happen if her drink is spiked. I was talking about naturally having your character's desire get super high (which it will do if you're not doing anything sexual), getting on the bus, and then actively choosing to let someone fuck her. There's one event at high Desire where she consciously chooses to look for someone to grope her, and then you're given the choice on whether or not to let them go further. There's another event where someone just starts groping her, and it begins with a "Accept Sexual Advances" popup. This one is directly dependent on desire. There is no "Reject" version of this event. If you're Desire is low enough that you'd reject the advances, the event just doesn't even trigger.
I also didn't say anything about high Allure making it "the woman's fault." I'm just saying if nonconsensual events have to rely on any stat to trigger, Allure is the one that would make the most sense. It's the same way that Degrees of Lewdity works. The higher your Allure, the higher the chance that someone will attack you. Maybe part of the problem is, because of the dialogue, I'm expecting this game's world to be similar to Degrees of Lewdity. And maybe the intention is that it is similar in the lore, but not in the gameplay.
No, no, I understand. I didn't try to accuse you or anything. There are so many different events in the game.
My rant was more directed to the general audience who might read our conversation. I just felt it necessary to point out to everybody that this is a game far away from reality. Your comments were just the right occasion.
Don't do this at home, kids! ;)