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CottageFemboy39 days ago (1 edit) (+1)(-1)

As as an FTM femboy, I'd feel disrespected and unseen if someone called me she/her behind my back like you are essentially doing to Hazel. Seeing as Hazel is human, not a non-human alien or fantasy world character, surely you can understand how this is flat out inappropriate when applied to actual humans outside of fiction. You don't get to decide someone's identity and pronouns for them. There's no "personal" choice for you, especially when it comes to something that gives people discomfort or worse, anxiety and dysphoria. Just be honest and say you want to pretend Hazel is a girl.

Edit to add that a man's enjoyment of feminine things and presentation (same situation for anyone else really) is not an invitation to call them by pronouns they don't use.

FrogW38 days ago(+1)(-3)

I think you misunderstood what I meant, I only identify him as “she” because he is a fictional character, his will does not exist, what exists is his creator's vision of who he is.

like any character in a work of fiction, they can be changed at will, as they are blank pages.

For example, Goku from Dragon Ball, everyone knows he's a man, but what stops me from drawing him as a transvestite, femboy, futanari or even a woman?

When I said it was something personal I meant it literally, I even changed the game's script so that in my game he identifies himself as "she" I changed several dialogues I created an exclusive version just for me where Hazel identifies herself as "she".

Now we have to separate what is fictional from the real, you are a human being and not a character created by someone, you are the one who defines your life and how you identify and not some entity from another astral plane defining your choices, you write your own story.

RadLord38 days ago(+1)

...you change the game script just to avoid admitting you like dudes?

FrogW37 days ago(+1)(-5)

Seriously, just for starters, I'm pansexual, the person's gender just doesn't matter, but that doesn't matter, the important thing is that you're being prejudiced.

There is one thing I would never question anyone about: another person's sexuality, which is sacred.

The moment you question another person's sexuality you demoralize them, it's one thing to question how to identify a non-existent character, it's another thing to demoralize another human being, this only denotes a lack of character.

But at the end of the day I just don't care what you think of me, if you want to think of me as the person who hides her taste in handsome guys, go ahead. 😉

rotikas15 days ago

Its legit just a porn game about femboys (for the most part). I think you might need a good long look in the mirror. Misgendering even a character says a lot about you and your views in gender expression. Its not a matter of preference, it is a matter of respect. Yeah he is fictional, but even then you should keep these things to yourself if you change the games script just to change a grown mans pronouns to she/her.

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