Customizing genitals of other characters as you meet them is on the todo list, and grows in priority thanks to requests like yours 'v' (Without your input I'd be making the game only for myself)
I thought the dating worked-- did you try waiting in the Cevrule Forest (click "Wait" and then select 24 hours)? There should be messages during the game saying "you have a date in 8 hours" too. I will see if it's working and fix it if not '>'/\
Make sure you're in the cevrule forest. If you aren't there, it should at least say that you missed it. It worked for me, so maybe I fixed it in the latest update for you.
P.S. I added genital toggles in the last update (check your inventory for the magic toys that you put into other characters), but the existing scenes aren't updated for it yet, so the writing might erotically talk about something that is no longer there. Future scenes will be written for changeable genitals (๑╹ω╹๑ )
