I used to be scared of them, but I spent a lot of time observing them, and eventually became really fond of them hehe. spiders it took longer just because I was scared of getting bitten ;w; But I've learned most spiders in my region aren't venomous, so that's helped a lot with my fear of them.
Of course!
Soundimages has a lot of music, all sorted by genre/vibe
Pixabay also has free to use music
Freesound is great for finding little tunes and sound effects, just make sure you double check the usage rights because some of them have different permissions!
ELV Games has a huge variety of bundles for music, though they do cost money
And of course, there's tons of free music packs on itch.io as well!
I also have used music from Darren Curtis and Aaron Krogh ^^
I hope some of these are helpful!