I understand, there is obviously a certain amount of responsibility in making the game when suddenly you have hundreds of people backing your project, expecting you to release something new every few months.
Patreon can be a real pain but from what i have seen they are usually fairly lenient to these types of games, specifically when it's female on male domination. Like i mentioned previously with that succubus game my friend has, it's been on patreon for 2 years now and that literally involves demon women raping guys to death, so either Patreon is completely oblivious to it(which is hardly the case since they reviewed the page a few times before) or they just don't mind kinks such as femdom.
Of course there is also subscribstar, where pretty much anything goes as far as i know but usually doesn't have nearly as many people singing up to it as patreon since it doesn't support paypal yet.