Agreed, what I do is ask people to give me their games so I can play them/leave feedback and they can play mine if they want. Feels a lot less scummy if you know what I mean
yeah, the thing is I generally would check out the games of people who just say that it would be nice to rate their games and not the people who actually do rate for rate!
So with me, if you don't do r4r, you actually have better chances lol