You dont need a publisher - yes I know and I agree, I only stated the publishers in the context where you said no one uses Facebook. Logical if there is a supply-demand market activity that is good.
steam wish list isnt accurate either- it is accurate if you generate WLs authentical and not by using farms/giveaways
Steam is also not the place to sell your game - again, sorry to disagree, I have games both on Steam, Itch.io, Gamejolt, and others and on Steam I managed to get Serious $$$. Here is a Personal opinion based on personal Experience: On Steam I made the best money for selling games but 0 on selling art packs while on Itch I made good money for selling on my Art packs but 0 on selling games.
think what you doing, find reliable sources not from facebook or Valve, - I 100% agree with you here that is why all my statements are based only on personal experience
I feel like your statements come from your heart but they are stubborn on an idea.
Still, I do have a question for you, and answering this one is a good way to actually have a solid argument in my eyes: how much $$$ you made for your best game in the first year of release comparing Steam-other platforms? (please also include links)