I personally struggle to find my own playstyle. Going for strength / warrior seems to be the easiest to overpower opponents altho I prefer to play classes like Thief or Enchanter where I can max out charisma. I guess the reason is I am still working on unlocking gallery and most of that means being a sub. Problem with that is you are eventually going to max out 'red' skills like blowjob master, anal lover etc a this leads to absolutely random game overs (yesterday on ironman i was really far and all of a sudden I got a game over when i rejected buying food from merchant in random humanoid encounter) - disappointing.
Same, though having trouble with the strength/warrior build, well as far as my roleplay goes anyway. I'm trying to stick to the game's class lore and making mine fit with it, all I can say is that I'm a bad muscle brained adventurer. As for Thief and Enchanter, I also prefer them: Thief as far as I've played (Just a bit beyond the first town) is interesting to roleplay though as far as the lore goes, I try to tend to avoid fights which is a bit borish and not that good as far as playing goes. For the Enchantress, yeah, with my experience with it (not that far but pretty obvious) you'll get a lot of game overs trying to roleplay that, I try to set a specific goal or standard to help fix that a bit, like just going for a certain mob/s or so instead of trying to go for them all.
In any case, this is a nice game, a bit wonky here and there but it is a hentai game is it? and still in development so it is to be expected.