I definitely dislike the constant need for peeing, but I don't mind the grind. It feels as though peeing is a required fetish forced on the player that's impossible to turn off rather than a basic need.
I could make peeing optional, but you’d still need a source for the ingredient. Maybe I can make an option where you skip the scene but still gain urine at a fixed rate. Or, even easier, I could just make it so that peeing yourself takes longer.
Do you find the emergency (peeing yourself) scene is happening too often? Or just the general idea of it at all is off-putting? Like if you had more time to just go pee on your own, would that fix it?
For me, it's a bit too frequent, but I also think a part of it is the act of clicking a "pee" button itself is a bit much at times. It doesn't kill the experience entirely for me, but it still feels like I should be able to avoid it. I think one way to fix this could be just having, maybe a shady vendor in the woods sell it (along with other materials you wouldn't find at a typical market stall), while making the basic need part a toggle could fix it entirely as well.