That's what I did. Cheat mode let me go ahead and select what I love and can stomach. But I only made this choice after missing the first scene with Emma. I felt bad seeing her walk away mad. But I also could not figure out a healthy way to have sex with her that wasn't hate-banging. Now that I'm passed that scene. I saw in a side save file that with Jen "manhandle" skill doesn't mean being cruel. Just being more insistent. I'm okay with that. I thought manhandle mean hurting the lady and being rough with her regardless of what she wants or begging to stop. I see now that would be more of the painplay or bull catagory. Not my style. But maybe there's ways around that while still romancing the more sub women who want that. Ultimately if I think I'm gonna be "just friends" with most of the cast. And date Lea in one save and Jen in another... Unless things get dark with them...
I get that. I do. But it's kinda disturbing for me. I couldn't bring myself to do it. And when the MC meets with her later and they agree that if they acted on anything felt between them in the heat of that argument, "anything that came from it wouldn't have been healthy." They say that if you don't hate-banging before you don't see Emma for a while, that big argument. And if I'm being honest, I agree.
I can't speak for anyone else but sex is something you do , IMO that you share a pleasurable moment with someone you like or love as you explore each other's bodies. I want to be friends with Emma and date her as equals. Not trash a room enraged yet also full of lust. I feel like we loose something as people if you're mad at or hate the one you have sex with. I don't know much, I'm just saying I'm waiting for Emma and the MC to have a sexual encounter where no one is dominant or submissive. It's just mutual love. I have never had sex (yet). But I def wouldn't want my first or ANY time to be with someone I hate. Which is why I can't like Kim. And I have mixed feelings about Deb. If she's using people to get herself off but, doesn't even always allow them to cum, how is that love making? You're reduced to a tool. An item. No more important than a dildo. If it's like that does Deb care if you look sexy to her or not? Wouldn't it be easier to use a person she wasn't attracted to as a tool to get off with? Does their looks or feeling matter if all they're there for is to worship her? I just don't get it.
The more I play this game the more I question what I would even do in the MC's place. That's why Lea, Jen and Bri seem the best choice. I feel little to no guilt romancing them because they enjoy it and the MC enjoys it. And no one gets insulted or used as a tool or made to submit to feed someone's ego. Or at least not much. I firmly believe now that the reason I missed so many chances to have sex in the past was because I didn't live on the edge. Girls I dated in highschool wanted to bang before their parents got home or while kids they were babysitting were outside. Or even without condums. So those rare moments I could have had sex I turned down because I want to have sex but not have the thrill of it being doing something wrong and risking getting caught or pregnant. Which made people write me off as boring or childish. Because apparently where I live people are more like Emma or Deb or Kim or Jaime in this game. Willing to do what it takes to get off. And romance may just be a happy side effects after that.