You'll come out to each of the LIs at an appropriate time, if you have enough affection to start on their path in October. (In Carlos' case, it'll be more that Adam accidentally outs you when trying to help him deal with his feelings for you.)
When you come out has no impact on the routes, other than potentially reducing the amount of time you have to get close to a guy (for example, if you visit Q&A later in the game, and therefore have less time with James and Dan before October).
Good to know, thanks for the explanation.
Also... I only just realized that I never expressed attraction to any of the guys upon first meeting them. That probably didn't help matters. Now in 2nd playthrough I've decided to become instantly attracted to Adam and Carlos and - wow, how the inner monologue changed! XD (Immersion is not as strong any more, though. Hard to say why, maybe the MC is just getting too bothered for it to feel realistic).
Great game, anyway. Thank you. It literally made my day today.
