you know that ur dna says that either you are male or female and you can do nothing about it?
fantasy*
I think before we start delving deeper into notions of social science, anthropology, psychology, and anatomy, you should first learn how to write and read. I feel like it'd help a lot with both reading comprehension AND empathy towards others.
TLTR: You're not ready to understand this game, much less have a chat about gender and sex. Reduce yourself to your insignificance.