SPELLS?! That's your problem! The Ogre has a simple attack pattern with the club. "Raise club" into "Attack". You can attack them during the raising phase. Block the attack. When they fall down that's your time to wail on em. The only time you need a spell is "Ultra Fire" for the Ghosts. (Maybe more like healing if you go 3rd fight with the Vampires or need Titan Strength for other stuff.)
No way to remove any titles. Gotta start a new game. (Never go butt stuff with a centaur to prevent "mare" status)
You CAN beat all the enemies from the start, you just have to stop relying on spells. USE THE COMBOS I MENTION UP TOP! (I even edited it to current version standard!)
Purity, no getting that back. Dignity, you have to beat up enemies.
Allies, like titles, once you have em there's no getting rid of em. Each ally only takes up 1 more food. (Making a max of +3 with all of em.)
And you can get the artifacts, use the SCOUT button to up your Perception for one movement. It will take up a turn so you'll use up food but all you need to use it for is the Hunger Charm.
I'll try my best with what you told me.
If I end up starting all over, I'm not doing any sex at all after all fights. That's the only sure way to avoid being humiliated and/or getting game overs.
I know it's a sex game, but I'd rather win. I wish there was a erotica game where sex only happened when you wanted it to. Not as a penalty after almost all encounters. I'd rather just go to a bar, meet a girl there, and have the option to date then bang her. Like in Mass Effect and Dragon Age.