No worries, i stopped before really getting "sick", and no problem, i totally understand that it's hard to optimize in such a short time. it's a thing i also often struggle with. I also know how hard it is to implement multiplayer stuff, and that it expotentially makes stuff ways more complicated. So actually really impressive that you implement that into your jam games :-)
I played the standalone version on a Quest 2 (my Quest 3 did not arrived yet and I'm not the biggest fan of PCVR tbh^^).
Please don't take my feedback "personal" or so. Just tried to give an objective feedback, so that you can improve these things. Was meant totally positive and hope it sounded not mean or so.