I apprecciate your point of view. And i can see were i just don't fully fit in the cast of players ment for this game. It does frustrate me a little bit, due to how i feel that games should fit the player not the other way around, but i digress.. - You did mention that there are a ton of customisation options for the run and i agree, they are awesome! It is a bit of a fidgedy subject to test and try around with, truly advanced settings as they are.
The kink itself is apealing, i'd just wish the game to allow for a more broad approach. Let me have the option to be a bit more dominant is what i try to bring across.