Haha, yeah I agree and I appreciate the advice. I need to think about this a little more..
I think you're absolutely right, but in this case it might not be a huge deal because the vision for me was never to focus much on your body as the protagonist. I find the idea of your body not mattering except as a vessel for others' pleasure to be really hot, regardless of what your body is actually like. It's not really about you, and that's why there is (and there will continue to be) a big focus on oral and anal.
Since it would be fairly easy for me to implement, I just need to spend some more time thinking about whether it will negatively impact the story down the line. As long as it won't impact the game much, I don't at all mind adding the option for people who want to play as a female character.
If I do decide that it's fine, you can expect me to ship the next update with the feature included!