Specializations I'll look into. If you can provide a screenshot that'd be really helpful and I'll try to fix it prior to the upcoming bugfix release.
Regarding Sexual actions, just for clarification, was the player ever penetrated during sex and torn? The effects will persist for a full day but SHOULD reset each evening, meaning that if your initial sexual encounter tears their ass/vagina then until that evening each sexual encounter will have arousal lessened by 40-60%. Also, is there any error codes showing in the black box that pops up with the godot launcher?
Edit: I think I figured out the stretching issue. I believe it is displaying if the participant was ever stretched even if nothing is currently using the stretched hole. That won't apply any penalties, but that can be confusing. I'll work on that.