I've begun playing the game yesterday and I absolutely love it, but it feels odd to me that once I have someone bound up, all I can do is attack them until they're helpless. Other than using CMD: Explosive finish or sex toys, I can't seem to find a way to deal charm damage which has me a bit sad, it feels boorish to capture someone and then just... hit them into submission. I'd much prefer to coax out submission like that and I'm feeling I must have missed some kind of spell or function.