This is the second time you make a big fuss about a very subjective matter. For one thing, people generally make the games they want to play. If nothing they make appeals to you, try asking nicely. So adults who enjoy adult activities are all "rapists" and "pervs", and "lack neurons"? Good luck getting anyone over to your side with words like that.
Edit: if you're the kind of asexual person who enjoys some adult material but would like it toned down, then say so. People might even be able to recommend something less mainstream. But not if you insult them outright for enjoying (checks notes) something you're also looking for.