insufficient..? he literally said himself he dated a minor .-.
He also talked about their first interaction on FA and how their relationship started as he helped her (a fan at that time) overcoming the end of a bad relationship and her damaged impression of the furry community (second comment in the journal you linked).
Yes, he admitted dating a Minor, but he also made clear that this did not begin with dating. He didn’t give an exact timeline allowing us to know the tame it took, but this began on FA. A site with very adult contends that is not really suited for minors and no really save method to check the actual age of its useres.
At what time he learned of her age (and how old she was at that moment) is completely up to speculation, but the indicators that she was 15 when it started are from the troll-account on X formerly Twitter dedicated to hating Kabier, a source absolutely not trustworthy. But with the situation given there is a fair chance that he initially assumed her to be an adult.
But is it strange that they became friends and then fall in love?
And again, ONE CASE DOES NOT PROVE A GENERAL POINT. This happening one time makes him not a pedophile, it would if it happened multiple times or started as a sexual thing, but not the way it did happen. (Though we have to take JasonAfex word here, as proof is missing, but at least Kabier did not said it to be false)
I can’t speak for others, so this is only my reason for taking his site in this specific point:
There is a single case that the whole point is based on. From my school days I’m still trained to act in these kinds of situations, as in my native country the worst event in history happened, and one factor was the hate on Jews that was fueled by generalization and history. And at least my teachers made sure that me and my schoolmates would go against any generalization we become aware of.
Regarding my argument about JasonAfex knowing or not knowing Kabiers age at the time, I am 100% positive he knew when they begun dating, I just say that (looking at the circumstances) much of their relationship could have developed before he knew her age.
Of the Friends I mentioned in the explanation why I have a problem with being called “bro”, there are 3 I do not know their actual age. Though I know they're adults, as 3 do have full-time jobs that require 2 years of professional training (after finishing school) and one is in her professional training after she stopped studying half-way through.
[Edit:] Asking because I wonder: Why do you call him proud about dating a 16-year-old (once)? He didn’t deny that, but (in the given FA-journal’s comments) the first talking about it was gunstinger. This doesn’t fit my understanding of being proud. To me it reads more like he’s annoyed to repeat something he had said/wrote many times before, though that is how I read what he had written.
Look i was immature with some of my responses but seeing someone who is a known creep and has a platform, from someone who has went through grooming and creeps trying to hurt me when i was younger, i know what its like and seeing people normalize What jason did is beyond hurtful to not only me but those who have been affected by groomers and creeps.
First off, I feel sorry that you had to experience this, and I now do understand better where you stand and why you stand there.
Please accept my apologies should I have accidentally hurt you in this discussion, as this was never my intention.
People call JasonAfex creepy for the things he did and that the things he did are extremely hurtful to people is something I do not try to argue against and never wanted to argue against. Getting hurt by thing others do is too familiar to me to not understand.
All I argue against is that he is called a pedophile because he dated Kabier when she was 16. That is for the reasons I already stated, and because pedophiles (when appearing in the news) tend to have done things to multiple children and/or todlers I deem unspeakable. Something way worse than all mentioned till now.
I still think that a 21-year-old dating a 16-year-old is strange despite being legal, (as I mentioned in my first comment) and thus don’t think it is normal.
I just see what especially Kabier said to this and that their love/relationship still holds after more than a decade, which is (at least from what I learned about it) unusual for a relationship that begun this early in live and didn’t include kids. This makes me think that they just have a genuine loving relationship with a beginning that is as unusual as it should be.
So again, I agree that what happened with them is not normal and should never become normal, but I truly think, that calling JasonAfex a pedophile is a false statement.
[Edit:] Thinking about it, what I call strange is exactly the fact you call creepy for what happened to you, making this a point that falls under the unintended hurting.
So again, I must apologize, because I failed to realize this while writing.
Thank you for understanding, my initial comment was a bit strong in wording but i still hold true to the "creepy" title i have given jason. But i was having a rough night mentally due to the past, and seeing this game pop up while looking for some laid back stories that i could calm down with and read. It triggered something deep inside me that fueled me with hatred and made me act immaturely. So i apologize for that, but my view on Jason will always be that hes a creepy, terrible person.