Well to know what I did differently, I'd need to know what others did. There are only a few things that seem to stand out to me.
1) I always supported Dozer and let him know he is huge all over, even his dick (which he thinks is on the smaller side). I also had no problem with me or others checking out his muscles.
2) I checked out Spencer when I visited his place. Later I admitted this to Dozer at the park. As we talked I made a choice and Dozer implied he might be open to a 3 way someday.
3) At the ski lodge, as we worked through the different temperature hot tubs, I let Dozer know I had no problem letting a couple other guys who we in there check out the Dozer's muscles. When we switched hot tubs, I let him know I over heard the 2 guys whispering that Dozer was huge "all over".
All inall, him topping me and then him getting me top him was a really great scene.