I think what Adhes is asking for is a way to specify in-game that he is a man with pecs and a vagina... but for references to the PC's vagina/clit to be customizable/trans-inclusive to reduce discomfort.
I am a trans man and I agree that this is a common request. Many of us feel uncomfortable with terms that women and other people designated female at birth are fine with.
I hope you'll consider the request. If not, I'll also have to play as a cis man, like Adhes. Nothing against you, but I wish more games that explore gender customization (the only way I can play as a character with a body that resembles my own) understood that.