Haven't read up on any dev's intentions on anything until recently, apologies for the ignorance if it's stated somewhere! I know Luke said Aster would be a sub in that one scene but that's coming from Luke. There are options in two moments you play wrestle where you can make a choice where you'll either get dominated by Asterion or you successfully get a move on him so I wasn't sure. At least that's what I got on my recent Math playthrough.
look, i understand that you didn't mean it like that, but it is the implications that i disagreed on your choice of words. of course you can have a preference, but depending on how you phrase it, that can come off as devalidating to the person in question. "unfortunate" is not a good word for qualifying someone's identity because of the negative implications.