See? You prove my point. You are exactly like your protagonist, never taking responsibility, always rejecting fault on others.
I made it clear that I WANTED to take responsibility so I obviously made every choice in that sense but no matter if I chose to acknowledge my responsibilities, Bryan still blamed others no matter the choices made.
It is never "I was at fault.", it is always "I was at fault, but so were you.", he always tries to share the blame instead of taking it fully.
And seeing your reaction, "It is your fault, you made wrong choices.", I was right, you are just as unassuming as your protagonist.